I know a guy that wanted a goth/alternative gf around the time the meme exploded; He went from fetishizing goth to going deep into goth music subculture. Started asking me about the clothes styles …

Gay goth girl here, yeah, dating is a pain. Most goth girls are either straight or taken. Goth aesthetic look which should include 2-3 of the following: Black or unnatural hair colors, tattoos, piercing, goth makeup/lashes, outfit/footwear, and accessories.