I really want to form a solid friendship with a guy before sex and not have a timeline. I waited to have sex with previous partners and it seemed easier back then but my previous partners went to school with … Solo play, masturbation, or whatever you like to call it, is an essential step in building sexual confidence.

I was struggling with many things in life: Health issues, my lack of relationships, and wondering if god had called me to be single. I was trying to figure out what to do with the overwhelming desire that …